Three simple user questions

Hello Can somebody help me with these simple questions: 1. How do I disable functionality, that when I move a window close to the top (possibly close to any edge) of the screen KDE maximises it? 2. How do I switch to "standard" KDE mouse pointer (the one seen in most KDE screenshot), to be more specific where can I download that cursor theme (what is it's name)? 3. Is it possible to change the "glow" colour? The one "beneath" active window. Currently it's blue. Thank you P.S. I did google but couldn't find any satisfying answers (I've possibly used wrong search keywords/names). -- Tomas Straupis